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Mommy. ME.

February 22, 2010 by Elaine

Sometimes life can be a bit overwhelming.

You know like when you’ve just come back from a whirlwind trip to visit family and friends, back in the town where you used to live that you still miss and you drive by your old house and can see the light beaming through the front door and realize it’s no longer YOUR lamp creating that light but your okay with the fact that you don’t have to deal with that tree in the front yard that was always losing limbs but you still kinda wish it was your house and not theirs.

You know, like that.

Oh AND, you’re sick when you get back.

And tired.

Sick AND tired.

But you have a wonderful husband who lets you sleep while he does ALL the laundry and takes care of the kids and vacuums out your car and goes to the grocery store to get your favorite soup.

And even though the much anticipated trip is over and life resumes to normal (and you MUST clean your house this week and take the oldest child to his first soccer practices) you’re just not “feelin’ it.”

But that doesn’t matter because it’s time to “suck it up” and be Mommy again and take care of the kiddos and dishes and cleaning and laundry (oh wait, that’s DONE!) and to remember that this is the life you always wanted and are so thankful to have even though some days are rough.

We all feel overwhelmed at times. I know. You know. We ALL know.

Somtimes it’s good for me to sit and look at all the pictures I take to calm me and remind me that my life is pretty great.

And sometimes?

I can look at a picture that my husband took and feel better. This is one of those times.

Ah yes, I feel better already…

I’m linking up to Krystyn’s Mommy and Me Monday since I finally got a picture of ME with my girl that I didn’t take myself!

elaine

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Comments

  1. Stephanie says

    February 22, 2010 at 4:38 am

    Beautiful picture and great post!!!

  2. Haley says

    February 22, 2010 at 5:14 am

    I am TOTALLY feeling you on this one…especially since I just got home from Mom 2.0 to tons of things that need to be done and Mommying that needs to happen.

    But all the little moments make it so worth it, don’t they?

    Love the photo!

  3. Jen says

    February 22, 2010 at 1:35 pm

    That is a beautiful photo.

  4. Krystyn says

    February 22, 2010 at 4:19 pm

    Yay for having the hubs take a picture…and a great one at that!

    Sorry you are overwhelmed…sometimes, I don’t want to put on my big girl panties, either. Like totally want a day off!

    Glad you are pulling through.

  5. Rach (Mommy Learns to Blog) says

    February 22, 2010 at 7:03 pm

    Great picture – you’re looking HAWT, mama! Sorry you’re feeling icky – hope it passes soon. And I’m glad you had a great trip “home”, even if it was bittersweet for you.

  6. ~Mendie~ says

    February 22, 2010 at 7:15 pm

    you girls look mahvalous! Hope you are rested from your trip, you are a lucky lady Elaine, but I can only imagine how exhausting it is being you!

  7. Lady Mama says

    February 22, 2010 at 7:15 pm

    Great post! It’s so true – sometimes everything feels so overwhelming (especially when you’re sick and have people to take care of!) and then you pick yourself up and get on with it and realize it’s all okay…

  8. Cheryl says

    February 22, 2010 at 8:11 pm

    mommyhood looks amazing on you…balancing everything is a daily struggle over here and I often I dont feel like participating! Thanks for the post!

  9. Chelle says

    February 22, 2010 at 8:39 pm

    Elaine, you are gorgeous. So pretty. I love it. xo

  10. Steph says

    February 23, 2010 at 1:31 am

    Loved your post! Great picture with your little one.

  11. Catherine Anne says

    February 23, 2010 at 1:41 am

    Love this pic of you two…

  12. Kami's Khlopchyk says

    February 23, 2010 at 2:46 am

    Yes, you are right, we all feel that way sometimes but what is great about you is that you see the good too. Atta girl!

    Love the shot of you and your girl 🙂

  13. A Crafty Mom says

    February 23, 2010 at 1:17 pm

    I love that photo, it is perfect! And I can totally, totally relate. Often feeling overwhelmed these days, hoping things slow down soon for both of us 🙂

  14. Christina says

    February 23, 2010 at 6:32 pm

    Hi Elaine! Nice to see you. :o) and I sure do FEEL you on this one, too. (well, most of it anyway – hopefully the husband part will be true for me one day, too!)

  15. Messy Mommy says

    February 23, 2010 at 7:26 pm

    Yes, we do know! I don’t think I’ve had a pic taken of the baby and i since she was born.

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Hi! I'm Elaine, a transplanted Texan who has spent almost 16 years living in Cajun country. I am re-married to Brandon and we have five "kids" together, ages 21, 18, 17, 16 and 15 and crazy but cute dog, Charlie. I am also an office manager, occasional writer, prayer, and lover of life! Find me on Instagram (misselaine0375) and contact me at misselaineous0375 (at) gmail (dot) com.

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