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Weeds

March 11, 2011 by Elaine

“Mommy, why are you taking a picture of those weeds?” he hollered at me as he zoomed by on his bike, doing laps in the driveway, round and round. The sky was overcast but the temperature was perfect outside. Spring was definitely in the air.

I turned around, noticing he was due for a haircut and admiring his piercing blue eyes looking back at me. “Because the flowers are cute and Mommy is trying to learn how to use her camera better.”

“But Mommy, I thought you didn’t like weeds.”

“I normally don’t but I like these little flowers on this one so I’m taking a picture of them.”

“Oh.” I could see out of the corner of my eye that his mind was spinning with more questions and that he was looking at me kind of funny.

Just then his brother came running up to me from behind, trying to tackle me as I knelt on one knee. I toppled over on my side and thankfully my camera and I were fine but the “weeds” didn’t fare as well. I crushed them as I fell.  Afterward, I sat down on my bottom and began to review the pictures on my camera. I was glad to have gotten a shot I was happy with before “Mr. Destructo” came at me with his full force.

He giggled as I looked at the photos and said, “Oh Mommy, I tackle you! Here I come again!”

“No Gavin! Mommy is trying to take pictures right now. Go play with your brother. Don’t’ you want to ride the four-wheeler?”

He ran off and hopped on his “truck” in the garage and pushed the button to make it go. A huge smile came across his face as he followed behind his brother. I liked it while they played outside during their baby sister’s nap so I could take a few pictures here and there.

I sat there amongst the grass and weeds and thought about how my son was right, I was not a fan of these unsightly weeds but today I had chosen to see the good side of them and capture it with my lens.

Later on that evening, after dinner and baths I was looking at the photos I’d taken that day on my laptop. Ben sat down next to me on the sofa. “What cha doin’ Mama?”

“Oh, I’m just looking at the photos I took today while we were outside this afternoon.” He leaned his little boy head against my shoulder as I went through each picture but sat straight up when I got to the picture of the weed flowers.

“I like that one Mama, those flowers are pretty. Where were they?”

“Those are the ones that were on the weeds, remember?”

“Oh yeah, that turned out really good! No wonder you wanted to take a picture. I like it a lot Mama. Great job!”

And in the same moment he was off, taking his newly-washed hair scent with him. I sat before my computer just staring at the photo and loving it more as I realized that tomorrow, when the lawn guy came to mow, that “ugly” weed and all of it’s “friends” would be completely gone. And then I was a little sad.  But so very glad I had my photo.

(The photo I took that day.  A print of it hangs on our living room wall)

This post was written for The Red Dress Club prompt: This week’s assignment is to write a short piece, either fiction or non-fiction, about something ugly – and find the beauty in it.

Filed Under: Photography, TRDC, writing

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Comments

  1. Lizz says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:00 am

    Lovely photo, and the sentiment behind is so sweet! Sometimes it takes someone (a kiddo, usually) or something (a camera) to help us see the beauty all around us!

  2. Carrie says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:12 am

    Those are really pretty flowers. My daughter LOVES dandelions (all kids do I guess) but all I can see is the weed 🙂

  3. Jennifer says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:19 am

    Great photo, but an even better story, and a priceless lesson.

  4. Leslie says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:20 am

    Fantastic post, beautiful photo. I have been trying to figure out how to incorporate my photography with this prompt. You did it! Well done.

  5. tracy says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:42 am

    Oh I just love this. Gorgeous photo! Just wait until you get that 50 1.4!

  6. swonderful says

    March 11, 2011 at 5:05 am

    i love the story! this was non-fiction, right? i am really jealous of your weeds. i can’t wait for things that grow to start their growing.

  7. swonderful says

    March 11, 2011 at 5:05 am

    (even weed things)

  8. Tyne says

    March 11, 2011 at 1:23 pm

    Hey Elaine, My friend from way back when! I am just getting caught up on some favorites and had to come by your place. Love your writing and the photo of the “weeds” is beautiful (my weeds don’t look anything like that!)

  9. Ilana @ mommyshorts says

    March 11, 2011 at 2:10 pm

    That photo is gorgeous! Photography always makes you see things differently.

  10. Crystal says

    March 11, 2011 at 3:12 pm

    ahhh I love this! What a beautiful photo. And let me tell you, I have 4 little boys…I loved your story of your little guy. Isn’t that how it is?! THey are rough and tumble and full of energy…but beautiful in those random still moments! Stopping by from red dress club.

  11. Lapiz de la Guerra says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:02 pm

    Great story! Photo is gorgeous, wish I had better picture taking skills! I am a big fan of dialogue in stories and I really loved how you used it as a tool to help move your story along.

  12. HonestConvoGal says

    March 11, 2011 at 4:58 pm

    Great job. And I love your weed pic. You’re a very talented writer and photographer.

  13. AbsolutelyPrimed says

    March 11, 2011 at 5:07 pm

    Proof anything can be made beautiful with the right angle and right perspective..

    Loved it & thanks for sharing

  14. angie says

    March 11, 2011 at 5:45 pm

    Wow, Elaine! Wow. Beautiful shot.

  15. Liz says

    March 11, 2011 at 6:37 pm

    I think it’s so great to take photos around your house and then frame them for decor inside your house. We have a series of 6 photos done with that same type of idea!

  16. Jen says

    March 11, 2011 at 6:57 pm

    Kids make you look at those ‘weeds’ in a whole new light.

  17. Adventures In Babywearing says

    March 11, 2011 at 7:13 pm

    Wow, what an awesome shot, and precious story!

    Steph

  18. Andrea (ace1028) says

    March 11, 2011 at 7:49 pm

    It is incredible how kids have this uncanny way of reminding us that there is beauty in every and anything. Even weeds. Now, me? I like those “flowers” because to me anything that isn’t ratty looking is a flower. And makes me sneeze. But they’re still pretty. Especially when my 4yo brings them to me after tearing them from the ground. So that’s the beauty in my allergies. 😉 Great writing AND picture!

  19. Lady Mama says

    March 11, 2011 at 8:27 pm

    Great photo, and I like the story behind it too!

  20. angela says

    March 11, 2011 at 8:52 pm

    I can remember being a little girl & thinking fields of dandelions were spectacular. Your photo is gorgeous, by the way!

  21. transplantedx3 says

    March 11, 2011 at 8:59 pm

    Well done! It takes the innocence of a child to remind what’s beautiful, doesn’t it? Lovely photo and story to go with it.

  22. Jennifer says

    March 11, 2011 at 11:09 pm

    “Oh yeah, that turned out really good! No wonder you wanted to take a picture. I like it a lot Mama. Great job!”

    Priceless.

  23. Shell says

    March 11, 2011 at 11:15 pm

    I love the pic- and such a sweet story to go alone with it.

  24. Angie @ The Little Mumma says

    March 12, 2011 at 12:17 am

    Great post. Wonderful sentiment and fabulous photography.

    The bokeh in this image is insane! What camera do you use?

  25. Karen says

    March 12, 2011 at 2:13 am

    This is one of the things I love (and hate) about photography. Finding beauty in the world, even when they are seemingly “bad” things like weeds, is challenging. I love that your son *got* it in the end. Great story!

  26. Mandyland says

    March 12, 2011 at 2:56 am

    Wow! Gorgeous picture! I’m going to call that weed a flower.

    I can’t believe you snapped it while fending off tackles.

  27. Jessica says

    March 12, 2011 at 3:00 am

    Such a fleeting moment and a great picture to remind you of it.

  28. tsonodablog says

    March 12, 2011 at 3:38 am

    You have a knack for photography, that’s for sure. Lovely picture. Poignant story, very well written. Nicely done!

  29. Galit Breen says

    March 12, 2011 at 4:27 am

    They are pretty!

    And as for getting knocked down on your bottom? Totally been there! They’re strong little buggers, aren’t they? 🙂

  30. Nichole says

    March 12, 2011 at 4:50 am

    What a lovely story.
    And that weed shot? Swoon! Gorgeous depth-of-field.
    So beautiful!
    I’m grabbing your feed now… 😉

  31. Ash says

    March 12, 2011 at 2:36 pm

    That photo is gorgeous! Like tiny fireworks. Incredible job Elaine.

    And the boys, too adorable, per usual. I too will be sad once the weeds are gone. Youngest likes to gift me with dandelions on a continual basis. Be still my heart.

  32. Cheryl says

    March 13, 2011 at 1:03 am

    LOVE that picture. I have a thing about taking pictures of dead trees. There is beauty everywhere, if you look close enough. I bet your son got a little bit of that message.

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